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Welcome to Hope Family Services Marriage & Family Center

sunset (48K)You may think of the Hope Family Services Marriage & Family Center as a place for individuals, parents, children and couples who want to make their lives thrive, not merely survive. Simply put we believe the more you can learn about yourself and your relationships, the better your life will be. We are committed to helping You develop the best life possible through our Counseling and Education Programs.

The Hope Family Services Marriage & Family Center's mission is to promote the common good and general welfare of the people of the community. This is accomplished by providing Counseling and Educational Programs that are needed to enhance the individual's quality of life, prepare couples for marriage, to strengthen families & marriages and to save troubled marriages.

COUNSELING

There will always be some problems in life. Unfortunately some problems just don't seem to go away, or they become overwhelming. Life Experiences may become too much and help is needed. That is why we provide Solution-Oriented Counseling, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and Thought Field Therapy (TFT). Our Counselors also have training in Marital Therapy, Child Therapy, Sandtray Therapy and Art Therapy.

Our Counselors provide help for:

  • Premarital Preparation
  • Marriage & Family Problems
  • Trauma Experiences
  • Abuse Recovery
  • Life Transitions and Changes
  • Child & Adolescent Behaviors
  • Relationships
  • Communication & Conflict
  • Depression & Anxiety
  • ADD/ADHD and LD issues
  • Grief & loss
  • Compulsions & Addictions

SOLUTION-ORIENTED COUNSELING
For Individuals, Couples, Children, Teens and Families. We believe people have the ability to change and grow; even small changes can lead to big changes. Our Counselors are skilled at helping people get to the heart of the problem and find solutions rather than just talking about the problems. With the help of the Counselor, people become experts in problems solving and creating future solutions. This is a results focused approach.

EMDR-EYE MOVEMENT DESENSITIZATION & REPROCESSING
EMDR is a technique that uses guided eye movement or bilateral tapping while the client is verbally guided to accelerate treatment of a variety of psychological problems. EMDR is effective with general anxiety, trauma recovery, phobias, abuse recovery, chronic pain, PTSD, accident recovery, depression & stress, relationship issues & performance anxiety. EMDR can safely be used with children, teens and adults.

TFT-THOUGHT FIELD THERAPY
An approach that uses the mind, body and emotions (thought fields) of the body to "tap" into nature's healing system. There are no side effects and you don't have to retell events. It is rapid and effective. Client's tap with their fingertips on treatment points in specific sequences while thinking of triggering stressors. TFT is very effective with anxiety, fear, anger, addictions, trauma, PTSD, depression and intimacy problems.

Insurances often cover a portion of the counseling fee. An adjusted fee may be available. Payment/co-payment by cash or check at time of services is requested.

To schedule an appointment e-mail counselor@hopefamilyservices.org or call 503-667-1435.

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WORKSHOPS

  • NEXT PREP/CPREP WORKSHOP
    Fall 2005
    Gresham, Oregon
    $110.00 per couple registration received ten days before or $135.00 late registration (Materials included). Pre-registration required. To register on-line click here.

    The PREP/CPREP (Prevention & Relationship Enhancement Program) Is the best couple educational program available!

    During the Workshop couples explore the danger signs that destroy loving relationships, expectations, issues and events, Speaker-Listener Technique, Forgiveness, Fun, Friendship, Commitment, Sensuality & Sexuality.

    Couples, (Premarital & Marital.) are invited to renew their love, commitment and friendship as they experience PREP/CPREP. For more information email counselor@hopefamilyservices.org or call 503-667-1435

  • NEXT KEEPING LOVE ALIVE! WORKSHOP
    Winter 2006
    Gresham, Oregon
    $110.00 per couple or $89.00 per individual for registration received ten days before or $135.00 late registration. (Materials included). Pre-registration required. To register click here.
    KEEPING LOVE ALIVE! For Couples or Individuals that want to stop replaying the same old arguments and get out of a rut while rediscovering the passion in their relationship. Based on the Divorce Busting work of Michele Weiner Davis KLA opens the door for relationships to heal. For more information email counselor@hopefamilyservices.org or call 503-667-1435

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PERSONALITY INVENTORIES

Do you know what makes you "tick" or what makes you unique? Are you aware of what your full potential is and how you can maximize it? One of the fastest ways to learn more about how you are is to complete a Personality Inventory. Our Counselors and Life Coaches are trained to administer and provide feedback for a variety of formal Inventories. PREPPARE/ENRICH Inventories are most often done face-to-face. All other Inventories are usually done by phone

PREPARE/ENRICH

These inventories have been scientifically developed to have high levels of reliability, validity and clinical utility.
Six Goals of the Prepare/Enrich Inventory are:

  • Explore couple strength & growth areas
  • Strengthen couple communication skills
  • Learn ten steps for resolving couple conflict
  • Explore family-of-origin issues
  • Develop financial budget
  • Develop personal, couple and family goals

PREPARE Inventory (Premarital), "Building a Strong Marriage" Workbook and three hours of feedback sessions for $275.00.

ENRICH Inventory (Marital), "Building a Strong Marriage" Workbook and three hours of feedback sessions for $275.00.

disc_logo (11K) DISC- Dimensions of Behavior Inventory DISC is one of the most popular tools for use with individuals, couples and families. The Inventory explores a large number of personality combinations and can give clarity about your personality including, relationship interactions, learning styles, leadership and follower behaviors, conflict styles and much more. DISC Inventory & an hour feedback session for $89.00.

spiritual_logo (7K)SPIRITUAL GIFT ASSESSMENT
DISC and Spiritual Gifts Profile. Discover how your giftedness can enhance what you have to give in volunteer capacities, as well as to the world. This profile is designed to increase involvement, reduce conflict and help identify spiritual gifts, talents and interests. Spiritual Gift Assessment & an hour feedback session for $89.00.

enneagram_logo (5K)ENNEAGRAM ASSESSMENT
Do you wonder why the people around you seem to see the world through different eyeglasses than you? This ancient personality inventory has value for understanding yourself and others. It explores nine basic personalities and the nuances of those along with three instinctual drives. In addition it has built in growth components, -tools and techniques for reaching your full potential. Enneagram Inventory & an hour feedback session for $99.00.

TEEN PERSONALITY PROFILE
Designed specifically to help teens identify and understand their personalities, behaviors, feelings and relationships. Teen Disc Inventory & an hour feedback session for $89.00.

WELLNESS DYNAMICS PERSONALITY PROFILE
Designed to improve your, wellness and coping skills by understanding Human Behavior Science. Temperament types and stress management practical application strategies are included. Wellness Dynamics Personality Profile & an hour feedback session for $89.00.

Procedure for selecting and scheduling

E-mail coach@pathwaycoaching.com stating that you are interested in an Inventory Plan. Please indicate which Inventory Plan you are choosing in the subject. Prepayment for Inventory plans may be done through Paypal.

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COACHING

For some Coaching may be a suitable alternative to Counseling. Coaching focuses on change, discovering solutions and achieving your goals. Coaching at it's best is a cooperative relationship that focuses on client desired results. Pathway Coaches offer help for individuals who finds themselves stuck & not making the changes they want. Our Coaches also offer Marital Coaching to help couples salvage their Marriages and Premarital Coaching for couples to start out on the right foot. The Coaching relationship is one that:

  • Challenges
  • Mentors
  • Teaches
  • Encourages
  • Guides
  • Advocates

Coaching Plans and Costs

Individual Coaching Consultation
The fee for a 45-minute confidential telephone Coaching Consultation with a Pathway Coach is $75.00. Worksheets are included.

Premarital Coaching-"Planning a Marriage for a Lifetime"
Includes PREPARE Personality Inventory, notebook with worksheets and three sessions. May be scheduled over a 6-month period prior to Wedding. Includes discount for a PREP/CPREP Workshop. ($299.00)

Marital Coaching-"Marriage for a Lifetime"
Includes ENRICH Inventory, notebook with worksheets and three sessions and discount for a PREP Workshop. ($299.00)

Confidentiality- Our Coaches recognize that the coaching client may have future plans, business concerns and personal & private information that may be discussed in a coaching session. A confidentiality statement will be made available when a Coaching Agreement is made.

Prepayment of Coaching Services is expected and may be made through Paypal.

E-mail coach@pathwaycoaching.com with the Coaching Plan of your choice in the subject line to begin your coaching experience.

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TELECLASSES

Our Teleclasses are live, interactive educational classes conducted over the telephone. The new learning medium of the TeleClass dramatically changes the face of continuing education. During a Teleclass you will receive tips, tools, strategies and techniques that will benefit your personal and professional life.

Teleclasses are convenient. You can call from the comfort of your home or office while eliminating travel time and expenses. Our Trained Teleclass Leaders deliver content-rich messages with high participation. They offer all the benefits of traditional, in person seminars and much more. Teleclass Topics include Relationship Issues, Conflict Management, Job transitions, Parenting strategies, Strength in Marriage, Stopping Divorce, Holiday Blues, Life adjustment skills and Military Family Issues.

FREE ONE-TIME TELECLASS OFFERED QUARTERLY.

For information about upcoming Teleclasses E-mail coach@pathwaycoaching.com

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E-COURSES

Are you experiencing a relationship problem in your marriage? An E-Course may just be the answer. From the convenience of your computer you can sign-up for an E-Course and receive it via your email. Advantages:

  • Work at your own pace and when it is most convenient
  • Work out of the comfort of your own home
  • Master skills & apply them successfully

FREE E-COURSE LISTING:

  • Saving Your Marriage from Destruction
E-COURSES

  • Marriages That Last
  • Family Survival Skills
  • Finding Your Best

To sign up for a Free E-Course or another other E-Course just e-mail coach@pathwaycoaching.com with the title of the Course in the subject line. Most E-Courses are completed in 3-6 lessons.

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OUR FOUNDERS

henge (47K)Ron & Shelia Borden have three grown Children and one wonderful Grandson. They have been married for 34 years. Shelia is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. Her background includes Solution Focused Counseling, program development, health & mental health program supervision, teaching at the University level and Life Coaching. She is certified in (TFT) Thought Field Therapy and has her advanced certification in (EMDR) Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. She has also received training in Art Therapy, Sandtray Therapy and Play Therapy. She is a "Keeping Love Alive" Leader. Shelia has been a Speaker at Professional conferences and often speaks to community organizations. Ron is a Chaplain. He has extensive training in Relationships, Communication, Conflict Management, Military Programming, Ministry Leadership and small team development. As a Military Officer he has worked with Military Members and Families in a variety of locations. Ron and Shelia are certified in PREP/CPREP and have received training in PAIRS and a number of Marriage programs. The Bordens are eager to help individuals, couples & families as they fulfill the mission of Hope Family Services Marriage & Family Center by promoting the common good and general welfare of the people of the community.

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Hope Family Services
2710 SE 182nd Ave.
Gresham, OR 97030
503-667-1435
counselor@hopefamilyservices.org
"Love…always hopes, always perseveres" 1 Corinthians 13:7


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